There are things floating around that have little or nothing to do with the Bible.
Regardless of your theology on the Predestination of Girlfriends, you're probably eager to be an active participant in your dating life. Myth #2: "The Bible has clearly defined guidelines for dating." People didn't date in biblical times.One glance at the numerous books about love, dating, and marriage suggests that we're making a lot of this up as we go along.Of course, there are biblical principles that are essential in dating.Before that, the couple has to take the initiative.Rather than directing the course of the relationship, God wants the couple to grow and learn how to make a commitment.There are some myths out there that people assume to be gospel about dating.
Christian culture is like any other in that we develop truisms that we accept without verifying.Once they've done that, God increases his sustaining presence.I'm not saying that God doesn't have a will regarding your dating life.The church has reached a difficult crossroads when it comes to pre–marriage romance.We no longer have rituals of courtship and arranged marriage to guide us every step of the way. It's also spawned a whole range of opinions and advice on how to handle dating.He made fun of modern dating, saying, "By the time you get married now, the fun is over.